Or did he forget that he had made plans with me when he got back? What is it when you meet someone online? You exchange several emails with that girl you are interested in and if that goes well you then ask for the number and call. If that goes well you decide to meet some where near her house, like a Starbucks or a local bar.  But, before you meet you have to take a trip for business or a holiday or what have you, and you promise to call and get together when you get back and you DON’T ever call again. Why not? What happened during the time from our phone conversation to the time you got back from your trip? I’ll tell you what happens… Since we haven’t met yet, I am not very important to you because technically I am NOT a person. I am just a picture and a voice that you heard on the other end of your phone. That is merely a friendship. It means nothing to you especially right before your trip. Am I wrong? You let me know.  Seriously, why even bother going through the whole process or is it just easier for you to blow me off this way with no hard feelings?  AND then you read these profiles online that start off like this….

 I’m new to this site, I joined because I don’t have the time to meet girls at bars and I travel a lot for work…….. And what makes this guy think this will work? Especially when he doesn’t call after his trip????  

Question is why do you tell me that you will call when you get back when you clearly get stuck in “the Terminal?”

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Let me start of by saying that I lost the bet!  I was on a first date at a Sushi restaurant this past weekend with this guy I had met recently. He brought me a CD with Euro techno that he had burned for me, and on the CD he wrote “music for you” in Russian.

Now, I used to read and write in Russian but that was a LONG time ago. Therefore I had a hard time reading what he wrote. And his handwriting was chicken scratch, but I was impressed that he did that for me to impress me. The writing just didn’t look right.  It was familiar but I felt like it was misspelled.  He saw me staring at it for a while and thought something was wrong, and I couldn’t help myself and I told him that it looked like he misspelled the word “music”. He was pretty adamant that he was right and we ended up almost arguing about it.  It was bugging me, and I was pretty sure I was right but of course he’s a man and had to argue with me. And, please lets take into consideration that my eyesight was a little off due to the sake I had consumed through out dinner. Even if that was written in English, I probably wouldn’t have been able to read it anyway.  

Finally he asked me to bet on the fact that he’s right. I thought this might spice things up a little because we didn’t have anything else to talk about and I agreed to pay for dinner if I lose.

He looked up the word on my phone and to my amaze he was right, and even then it still looked weird. I apologized and accepted the fact that I clearly did not know what I was talking about. He then proceeds to order more drinks and Sushi knowing that he won.  When the check was dropped off at our table I suggested we split the bill. With all seriousness he let me know that I lost the bet and therefore he is not chipping in for it.  105 dollars later, I ended up paying for it. Talk about turning a girl off.  Is he serious?  I don’t know anyone that would allow a girl pay even over a silly bet. Do you?

He then suggested we get coffee? Do I look like I want to continue this date?

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My girlfriend has been seeing someone on and off for a few years. Lately however it has been more off then on. He has been calling her every week or so asking her out on dates but always coming up with excuses to go into her apartment. She has always denied his attempt and said good night at the door. This guy just never seemed to take her serious so she wanted to see if his changed and apparently he hasn’t.  How did she find out? He sent a pix message of his manhood.   Gentleman, do you have to go there in order to get what you want?  Please keep it R rated. 

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I read an article on the home page of Yahoo the other day about dating errors that men make online. According to David Wygant, a dating coach and author who currently works with Yahoo personals has given us a top ten list. To view them please click on the link to your left. Below I have noted the top 5: 

1. Don’t ask her how much she weighs
2. Don’t email 7 times
3. Don’t ask her how many other dates she’s had
4. Don’t send nasty email
5. Don’t ask for sex

This guy emailed me online several times and I finally responded with one or two word answers because he wouldn’t take the hint the first few times I ignored his emails. I finally felt bad for him because he tried. I understand it takes courage to email someone who may not write back. After we exchanged several emails I thought I’d give him a chance and let him call me. He called me a few days later.  Within 3 minutes into our conversation he asked me how has my online dating experience has been. I immediately told him about the article I read and how this question should not be brought up in the first conversation. He was surprised to hear me say that. I even offered some advice letting him know that he shouldn’t ask that to anyone in the future. It’s almost like asking someone how many people have they slept with.  He ignored what I said and proceeded to say,” why not? So, how many dates have you been on?” I was shocked that he continued with questioning me about my dating history online. I almost directed him to this blog but didn’t want him to think he may end up on it. I refrained and said, “ Do you seriously care how many dates I’ve been on?”

Does he? Does anyone really care about past dating history when you’re trying to see if YOU are going to get to go out on a date with this person? Needless to say this guy wasn’t getting anywhere past this conversation! It seemed like he was more concerned about my dates then myself.  

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Is he serious? I met this guy a few weeks ago and we spoke on the phone several times and couldn’t figure out a day and time to meet because we live pretty far from one another. Technically he is “geographically undesirable”. However, I was in the neighborhood visiting my family and thought I may as well take a detour on my way home and meet him for a quick drink. We had a glass of wine at a nice bar with a romantic vibe, had some good laughs and found out that we had a lot in common.  He was tall, attractive, had dark hair and dark eyes. It was safe to say that we both wanted to see each other again.  He called me a few days later and the conversation wasn’t flowing as easy as it has been before. I’ll admit that I had a few things on my mind that night but I was still attentive and tried to make conversation until I heard him eat something very crunchy on the phone. I didn’t think anything of it at first but after 25 seconds (when it seemed like 10 minutes) it was very unbearable. It sounded like one of those people you may have seen in a movie theatre that pack their mouth full of chips/popcorn and can barely chew. I asked him if he was eating a carrot because that’s how loud it was and I was hoping it was something healthy & he said, “No, I’m eating chips, why is it annoying?” I said, “YES! Do you want to call me back when you’re finished?” He says, “Hold on one more chip”. Is he serious? Who says that? And as he filled his mouth again I hung up. I’m sorry but that was just RUDE! Was I wrong?

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