I met this guy online who lives just a couple of thousand miles away from me. Immediately I thought he was cute but geographically undesirable. He kept contacting me via instant messenger and I thought well it’s someone to chat with when I’m bored at work. At one point he thought he was wasting my time, and I thought he was just helping pass the time at work. After a few weeks of online chatting, he wanted to call me and I didn’t think anything of it. We ended getting to know each other better and have become friends. We both learned that we have some days off from work during Christmas and want to go away for a few days. He suggested that we go to Cabo.  I thought it was a great idea, what can go wrong with two friends meeting up in Cabo? His pictures were attractive and he seemed cool on the phone, why not right?  Click para continuar lendo »

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The most bizarre thing happened to a girl I know. She was sitting at the bar having drinks with her friend. The bartender then brings her a glass of milk and lets her know that a guy at the corner table sent it over. Hu? Milk? At the bar? WTF? She looked over at him and gave him the dumb look asking what’s with the milk without actually saying it. The guy walked over to her and said, “You have big boobs so I thought you can use a glass of milk.” Is he serious? Does he talk to his mother like that?

Seriously, where do these guys come from???????

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Is he serious? What he is really saying is that he doesn’t want a relationship with me. I think I’ve heard all the excuses of why he doesn’t want to commit right now. It’s always one of these excuses “I’m too busy, I’m still in school, I’m focusing on my career, I’m not ready to be that serious”… etc. Give me a freaking break and just be man enough to say, I’m that into you and I want to continue to date other people. Little do they know, I’m the best there is lol, just kidding.  I’m sure most of the women will agree that we would prefer to here the truth then be dragged along while you’re looking for someone better and if you don’t find someone better then you’ll choose me. It’s like a pity commitment since I stuck around for so long. And I think its safe to say that relationship never works out either. I was just instant messaged by this guy I went out months ago. I can’t even remember if he ever called after we had met. If I can’t recall then I can assure you he didn’t. Anyway, he suggested that we should re-connect. I thought to myself re-connect? Why didn’t you “connect” with me when we first met? And of course he says he wasn’t ready for a relationship. Umm, ok dude we just met I never asked for a relationship. And he said he was too busy with school. I didn’t want to go down the excuses road and asked him to be honest with me, it wasn’t school, “You were just NOT that into me!”

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This gorgeous guy emailed me online. As usual it was a message that said, “I like your profile, great pics, I’d like to get to know you better, write me back if you’re interested”. But his pictures were so HOT that I didn’t even care to read his profile and I wrote back right away. Why play games with a cutie like that? Lol We exchanged several emails before he asked me out for lunch. I was so excited to meet him that I never really asked any questions. The fact that he looked like a model was enough for me. I suggested a local chain restaurant (Friday’s) near my office since I didn’t have a lot of time that day and he had no problem with driving it over by me.  I woke up a little earlier that day to give myself a little more time to get ready.  I arrived at the restaurant right on time and didn’t see him and took a seat at the bar.  I waited a few minutes and saw there was a single guy sitting close by but he didn’t look familiar so I kept waiting around. Besides this guys was not good looking at all so I knew that couldn’t be him. Another minute went by and I noticed that guy walk towards me, I got so nervous for a second because I didn’t want my date to walk in and see me talking to some other guy. I tried to turn away to let this guy know that I wasn’t interested in being approached.  Next thing I know, this voice behind me calls out my name. I turn around and sure enough it’s the unattractive guy.  I was so shocked I didn’t know what to say. He looked NOTHING like the pictures online, not even close to being a relative of the hottie. For a second I thought those pictures were real model shots and not this guy at all. At that point what can I do run? Umm yea the thought did cross my mind but I couldn’t do that. Either way how bad can this be.  

The conversation during lunch was ok; I learned that those were his real pictures from 5 years ago. I accidentally thought out loud and said, “You don’t look like that anymore”. Seriously lets be honest here, did he actually think the girls he goes out with will still be interested in him???? I think NOT. To top it all off, when the bill came, he took it from the waiter looked at it and said, “I am not at liberty to take care of this check, can we split it?” WHAT? Not at liberty?  Who says that?  

Why lie about the way you look right now? What did he get out of that? The idea of dating is to potentially meet that one and only that we’re all looking for right? Guys complain that the girls post old pictures of when they were thin. Then why do men post pictures of when they were a lot younger?

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I went out to dinner with this guy I had met. When he came to pick me up, he was wearing a nice suit with a tie. He surprised me with a bouquet of white tulips and a CD that he wanted me to listen to. He was in a band on the side. I thought that was really sweet because how often does a guy bring a girl flowers these days? I thought he was very attractive. Once we were seated at a table at the restaurant, the waitress came over to take our drink order and my date said he didn’t drink. I thought for a second that was strange because he’s a young guy. Why doesn’t he drink? When I asked him about that, he ignored my question and just decided to order a beer and I had a glass of wine. During dinner, the waitress noticed it was time for a refill and I ordered another glass of wine and my date chose not to get another beer because he was driving. I thought that was nice of him to think of me and bring me home safe. When the waitress came back with my drink, my date immediately took a big sip of my glass of wine. I didn’t think anything of it until he continued to drink my wine as if it was water, so I ended up ordering another glass. He continued to gulp on my wine. I just thought he was enjoying himself and wanted to drink, but not too much since he was driving.

The date went really well and when he was dropping me off he seemed a little tipsy. So I thought I would invite him in; that way he could have some water and sober up a little. He refused, and said the only way he’d come up is if I had more wine. That should have raised a red flag, but I thought I’d be able to convince him to just have water. And that’s where I was wrong. He asked me to play the CD he brought and make him a drink. He barely even touched his drink and when the music started to play, he immediately began to sing and dance in my living room. During the 2^nd song, the jacket, tie and the shirt came off. I have an elliptical trainer in my living room and he was holding on to the handle like the “Rock Star” he thinks he is. It turned out he was holding on for dear life.   Needless to say, the next time someone drinks my wine like its water, I should run the other way.  

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