Why do these guys keep saying that? Strangely enough I heard this 3 times yesterday from different people. Is it something that we as women give off? When it comes to online dating, everyone is looking to find the “one”. Ultimately it’s all about the chase not really taking it “slow”.  Or does it keep the excitement going. In all honestly it’s just a game to see who, is the better player and the loser gets the prize.   If there’s a connection with someone it’s always the guy that wants to take things slow. But if you are interested in getting to know me better then why hold back on how you feel? I think that the connection wasn’t strong enough to continue to pursue me. We don’t try to “rush it” we just want to see you or speak to you again sooner then you do. That doesn’t necessarily mean we want you and only you right now. It just means we want to get to know you NOW. Lol.  What doesn’t make sense is, if you meet that special person you want to get to know then why stop yourself from calling them or seeing them when you want to? And you are probably taking it slow with other girls at the same time. After several dates the guy wants to get intimate and if you say you want to take it slow, then you shouldn’t rush us into the bedroom.  What does that really mean?

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