I received this email today from this guy who wanted to post his story. He talks about being honest with the significant other yet he mentions that he wasn’t “That into her”.

So was he dishonest with her from the start about his feelings? Hard to say, from what I gather I don’t think he was ready to be with any woman. You may have another opinion. In my dating experience I have learned that if a man is not all set with his career then he will not be able to give himself fully to a girl because he is married to his job. Period! Please click below to read his post.

We’re all difficult human beings, men and women. Men have their desires and women have theirs. It would just make the relationship or dating process more respectable if both were somewhat honest as you mention in your blog. My last girlfriend kept asking me where we were in our relationship and we had only been dating a few months. But it seemed like every other time there was the question. I really liked her, but in the end she was more into me than I was into her. She was 34 and applied the pressure since there’s that starting a family thing in the air. I’m 37 years old now and starting a family would have been great, but like many in the LA area I’m an artist trying to find my way and make a living doing what I want to do. I can’t support others if I can’t support myself. People have bad timing and at times don’t know what they want. I pretty much know what I want. I just need to find the right chemistry and timing for myself and I think we each have our own make-up we bring to the table. The best thing you have is a good attitude. I got that from your writing.

I may not be making much money, but I’m building my real, resume and getting experience. One day I’ll make a big living, have the big house, see the kids grow up and have the wife with a big, big heart.

whyme@isheserious.com

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