4 months ago I met this guy online and after several email and phone conversations he asked me out for a drink. I took him up on the offer and when that day arrived he canceled on me over an instant messenger & apologized but asked to reschedule for another day. I was pretty tired that day and didn’t mind the cancelation. He let me know that he would call me later on that night to pick a better day for both of us.  He never called that night or any other night for that matter.  I probably should have forgotten about the guy but it bothered me that I had invested so many conversations into him just to get blown off. Just because he never met me does not mean that I don’t have feelings.  So, I sent him an instant message a week later saying nice to meet you. He immediately wrote back apologizing and almost begging me to give him another chance and meet him for a drink. For more please click below

I surprised him by meeting him at a restaurant with a friend of mine. When I got there, I was not surprised the way he looked. Tall, dark hair, dark eyes and a bit heavier then the picture I initially saw. I didn’t feel any chemistry but my friend hit it off with him. At the end of the night we said our goodbyes and went our separate way.  To my surprise he sent me a text message the next day asking me to go out again. I was busy at that moment and couldn’t write back. He then sent another text message asking why am I ignoring him. Talk about possessive. First of all I don’t owe him a text message back and 2^nd he had no patience. After a 3^rd text messaging I finally wrote back and said, “Wow you’re inpatient, can’t make it thanks.” Apparently he didn’t like that message and wrote me back calling me all kinds of names. What normal person does that? Name calling? What are we in 3^rd grade? Is he going to tell on me now?  To make a long story short, this turned into a text message war.

Today, I received an instant message again from him asking me out for a drink.  Is he serious? What makes him think that after calling me all the names in the book that I would actually go out with him again? I wrote him back to say, thanks but not thanks. And he still responded with this:

“you said “no” and i accept your answer. i didnt realize asking you out was being disrespectful?  thought you would have let by-gones be by-gones, but appparently you’re not over it.  this did happen almost a half a year ago.  if you change your mind and would be willing to give a second chance, that would be great.

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