I was browsing online the other day and this guy sent me an instant message. I decided to accept without really taking a good look at his profile and we had a pretty good conversation over IM. He seemed really nice; he was intelligent (an attorney so he had to be right?), good-looking (according to his pics) and he made me laugh. We chatted for a while and then realized that we both lived in the same building. What are the odds of that happening? A good-looking, successful guy and lives right above my apartment???? Well two things can come of this. It’s either a little to close or it can be really convenient. We decided to have a glass of wine that evening at my place. I thought what’s the harm since I live with a guy roommate anyway. Click below to read more.

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Why do these guys keep saying that? Strangely enough I heard this 3 times yesterday from different people. Is it something that we as women give off? When it comes to online dating, everyone is looking to find the “one”. Ultimately it’s all about the chase not really taking it “slow”.  Or does it keep the excitement going. In all honestly it’s just a game to see who, is the better player and the loser gets the prize.   If there’s a connection with someone it’s always the guy that wants to take things slow. But if you are interested in getting to know me better then why hold back on how you feel? I think that the connection wasn’t strong enough to continue to pursue me. We don’t try to “rush it” we just want to see you or speak to you again sooner then you do. That doesn’t necessarily mean we want you and only you right now. It just means we want to get to know you NOW. Lol.  What doesn’t make sense is, if you meet that special person you want to get to know then why stop yourself from calling them or seeing them when you want to? And you are probably taking it slow with other girls at the same time. After several dates the guy wants to get intimate and if you say you want to take it slow, then you shouldn’t rush us into the bedroom.  What does that really mean?

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One of my girlfriends has been dating this guy for a few months. It’s not serious but there was definitely potential for something more in the future. The guy went away for a week on vacation. When he returned, he took her out to dinner and had presented her with a gift; it was a small jewelry box. She was so excited to open it because that led her to believe that they are moving forward with their relationship. She was so nervous to open this little box and when she did it was a shock of her life.  One earring! Yup just one, is he serious? She has TWO ears.  I wonder what happened to the other one???????  

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One Saturday afternoon this guy I was dating and I decided to go shopping at the local mall. While the day was going pretty smooth we discussed how we were beginning to get quite hungry, yet he seemed to be avoiding getting lunch. He reassured me that he was going to take me to a “nice” lunch. Of course I am thinking maybe Joe’s or something nice like the Cheesecake Factory, nothing fancy but a nice lunch. Needless to say neither of the two was on the menu. Where did this cheap ass take me you ask? The guy took me to the food court at the mall. Yes, you read it right, the food court! To top it all off this Rolex wearing, 25 year old home owner, Mercedes driving fool stops at Wendy’s and tells me to order from the 99 cents menu because he only has five dollars on him. HELLO ATM!! What kind of grown man goes out with only five dollars on him anyway?? Especially knowing he was spending the day with a hot chic like me? What is wrong with this guy? Who raised him? Animal! Didn’t anyone ever teach him how to treat a woman? Take a walk cheap-O. Some nerve. I say -NEXT!!! 

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Some guy emails me online from his friends profile and expressed his interest in me and asked me to give him a chance to get to know him a little better. I thought that was a sweet email and he was taking a chance on emailing me. I replied back to this profile with my personal email address in order to receive a picture from this mystery man since I don’t know what he looks like.   About a week later I checked my email, well with all the holidays and my vacation I didn’t have much time to check it earlier. There was an email from some random guy that has sent me a pic. The message didn’t say anything but his name. When I downloaded the image, it was a guy in a tux and some girl in almost like a prom dress on his right arm. WHAT??? Seriously, does this guy really think he’s going to pick up a girl like that? Who was that? How does someone send an email that is obviously random and not even introduce himself? AND then did I have to see this girl on his arm???????? 

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