Okay, I’ve had my share of bad dates with women, but this one definitely takes the cake.

I met this girl randomly in a bar, exchanged numbers and Email addresses, shot a few Emails back and forth, and decided to meet today for dinner at a place called “Teaism” in DC. It was scheduled on a Wed night because it takes away from the pressures of a “real date” on a weekend. Everything went well, we had dinner, drove around a little, she did the whole “tour guide” thing as we passed through different parts of DC. I dropped her off at her car. We hang out in her parked car and just chatted away about everything, from our opinions on Wal-Mart to what we do for our careers.

At the end of the night, she asked me what my last name was. I’m usually careful about my personal safety and it’s the first “real date” with her, I decided to not to tell her. After a few jokes to deflect the question, she seemed really determined to find out my last name. Should it really matter? Is it just another example of women wanting what they can’t easily have (in this case, information)?

I politely hinted that I’m not going to tell her, and she basically showed an attitude, somewhat like how little girls act when they don’t getting what they want. Do all women act like this, even though they’re grown (in this case, older than me)? If I put up with that, does that mean she’ll get everything she wants from now on or she’ll just keep showing that attitude?

I said “Well, I guess we’re not meant to be, it was great seeing you again, I’m going to get going.” She said “like wise” and I left her car and we both drove off in different directions.

Afterwards, I decided to do the “right thing” and sent her an Email offering to be friends. “Hey, just wanted to shoot an Email and tell you I had a good time tonight. Sorry things didn’t work out, but I’d still like to be friends, or at least one of your jack@$$ associates. You know, the occasional dinner and stuff.

Talk to you later,

Signed

Her reply was expectedly obnoxious.

no thank you.
thank you for dinner.
i never care to see you again.
good luck and best wishes.
goodbye.

please do not contact me again.”

But still, I’m glad things happened the way it did. It just shows I “click” with a certain type of people, and she just isn’t one of them

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