I had a dinner date last year. I met this guy on my way out of the bar. He stopped me to chit chat, he was cute but I was leaving and didn’t have time to chat. I just gave him my number to cut the conversation short. Besides, I figured it would make him want to call me more. I pleasantly surprised by his call the next day since he didn’t wait 3 days like every other guy I’ve me and asked me out for the following day.

 We met a local diner near my house and we both ordered a diet coke since we were driving. The conversation went well, we laughed and smiled and I noticed he was drinking his diet coke pretty fast. I didn’t think anything of it since it wasn’t alcohol but then when he got to the bottom he continued to sip on the straw where there was nothing left but an empty glass with ice in it. I looked at him funny; thinking why isn’t he ordering a free refill?? When I asked him if he wants another he said no and that he’s good. Then he started to chew on the ice. What was wrong with him? I tried to ask him again if he wants a refill and even assured him that it’s FREE. Instead he asked if I was going to finish mine. I gladly said no and watched him finish my coke. What was that all about????   Anyway, the funny party is that I ran into him the other day and he asked me oout again. Is he serious???

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I hope you remember my post from November of 2007 where a guy created a website in order to find the girl of his dreams that he saw on the NYC train. Well they dated for awhile and I just found this post online that it has been reported by the girl that it’s OVER!!! This is sad news for him. But the article also talks about how this girl is trying to be an actress. Why is she exploiting the situation so much? I get the press is press but he went above and beyond to find her and try to make the relationship work. Is she serious?

Check it out.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20080729/od_nm/subway_dc

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 http://www.mens-dating-magazine.com/living-single.html

“Start viewing yourself as HAPPILY single and ‘poor’.

.. when you start seeing being single and living with less than you want not as something negative but as an opportunity — an opportunity and the free time not spend on women to change yourself and your life.

The single life allows you to create that kind of life, in which you’re happy without a woman having to be in it. ”

I found this article earlier today. It is written by a guy who advices men on how to attract women. I understand what he is teaching his fellow men but at the same time these guys NEED/WANT us. How can a guy teach his fellow guys to stay away from women???? Maybe these single broke men can’t make any more money and they are who they are. Is he seriously telling them to stay away from women and focus on themselves to make more money? To me it sounds like he’s saying stay home for a while, save some money and that will attract women b/c it shows the guy has money. Well to me, money isn’t  everything, its about his personality and how he treats me. Wouldn’t you agree?  

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I’ll be the first to admit that I’m bad with directions, but this third date tonight was over the top.  I picked her up at 8:00 for dinner at a small French restaurant several miles from her house.  I don’t live anywhere near her house and there is my natural inability to determine north from south.  We talked as I made lefts and rights hoping to find this place.  I think she started to get a little worried by my second u-turn, but I continued to chat hoping to take her mind off the ride.  Just when I thought I was on track again, I missed a right turn.  I made an illegal u-turn and stepped on the gas.  As I came to what was now a left turn, my date yelled out “make a left!”, “make a left!”  She scared the hell out of me and almost caused an accident. Luckily there weren’t any cars behind me because I had to stop short.

Needless to say, I drove in silence the rest of the way and didn’t talk much during dinner. I was too scared if she was going to yell again.

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 No, no, not two weeks notice at work but I wish it was that way when it comes to dating. People never give the courtesy call to let the other person know that they are not interested in pursuing anything further. When I first moved to Los Angeles, I met many men at bars on the weekends. It was so weird, I would meet someone on Friday and Saturday and it was always an interview with each guy I would meet. This is how it went:

The guy would approach me, ask my name, where I’m from and what do I do for a living. I would answer and ask the same questions in return. We continued to chat further and have a cocktail or two and exchange phone numbers. The following week he would call, we go out have a good time and he calls again a few days later for a 2^nd date and two weeks go by and I never hear from him again.

This continued for months. I would meet someone new every other weekend if not every weekend. It was like the guys knew that I am new to town. Was it written on my forehead? In any case, I had several two week “relationships” that never went any further then 2 maybe, maybe 3 dinners. Maybe you’re wondering it was because I didn’t give up, oh contraire my friends. That’s what I used to think, but nope. It’s because this city is filled with beautiful women and there are too many to choose from and no one sees what is in front of them because they are too busy thinking that Mrs. Right is still out there. Oh AND 78% of this city is in the ET industry and if you cannot help them succeed what else are you good for?

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