http://www.mens-dating-magazine.com/living-single.html

“Start viewing yourself as HAPPILY single and ‘poor’.

.. when you start seeing being single and living with less than you want not as something negative but as an opportunity — an opportunity and the free time not spend on women to change yourself and your life.

The single life allows you to create that kind of life, in which you’re happy without a woman having to be in it. ”

I found this article earlier today. It is written by a guy who advices men on how to attract women. I understand what he is teaching his fellow men but at the same time these guys NEED/WANT us. How can a guy teach his fellow guys to stay away from women???? Maybe these single broke men can’t make any more money and they are who they are. Is he seriously telling them to stay away from women and focus on themselves to make more money? To me it sounds like he’s saying stay home for a while, save some money and that will attract women b/c it shows the guy has money. Well to me, money isn’t  everything, its about his personality and how he treats me. Wouldn’t you agree?  

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 No, no, not two weeks notice at work but I wish it was that way when it comes to dating. People never give the courtesy call to let the other person know that they are not interested in pursuing anything further. When I first moved to Los Angeles, I met many men at bars on the weekends. It was so weird, I would meet someone on Friday and Saturday and it was always an interview with each guy I would meet. This is how it went:

The guy would approach me, ask my name, where I’m from and what do I do for a living. I would answer and ask the same questions in return. We continued to chat further and have a cocktail or two and exchange phone numbers. The following week he would call, we go out have a good time and he calls again a few days later for a 2^nd date and two weeks go by and I never hear from him again.

This continued for months. I would meet someone new every other weekend if not every weekend. It was like the guys knew that I am new to town. Was it written on my forehead? In any case, I had several two week “relationships” that never went any further then 2 maybe, maybe 3 dinners. Maybe you’re wondering it was because I didn’t give up, oh contraire my friends. That’s what I used to think, but nope. It’s because this city is filled with beautiful women and there are too many to choose from and no one sees what is in front of them because they are too busy thinking that Mrs. Right is still out there. Oh AND 78% of this city is in the ET industry and if you cannot help them succeed what else are you good for?

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Shocking, I know but true. He was on Oprah today telling his story with his wife. He was born a female and was a beauty queen in his earlier age and has always felt like he should be a man. He met his wife when he was still Tracy and she accepted him and now accepts him as a man. So did that make her a lesbian? But she also has 2 children.

I am still unsure how I feel about this. We can look at it in two ways. Finally here is a man that can do it “ALL” or is he still confused about his sexuality??? Because he is excited about being pregnant. I think it’s great that he found happiness with his wife and he was able to give her this amazing gift in having a baby girl when she was unable to get pregnant herself but at the same time then he’s really not a man. I have no problem with women or men changing their sexuality because they feel they were born in the wrong body but then make up your mind. Are you a man or a woman, because men DO NOT GIVE birth. For more please visit the link http://abcnews.go.com/Health/story?id=4581943&page=1

This just shows what this blog is all about, not just the bad dates, or the wrong men we meet, even our society has is he serious situations.

What do you think about this?

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I was shopping at Trader Joe’s last night. I just got back from the gym, I was wearing sweats, t-shirt and a sweatshirt with my hair pulled back in a ponytail, no make up and clearly Sami- sweaty from my work out.  I was praying that I wouldn’t run into anyone since I was not looking my best. It was so late that I just wanted to run in and get some fruit and veggies for the week. Anyway, I’m at the register waiting in line to check out, and there was a couple in front of me getting ready to pay their over $100 bill. If you have shopped at Trader’s Joes before you know it’s not that easy to spend that much unless you’re stocking up for a month or feeding a family of 8. Well when it was my turn, I said to the cashier, “What did they buy.. the whole store?” He laughed as the bagger next to the cashier was placing my groceries into the brown paper bag. The bagger then said that they couple bought a lot of expensive wine. I chuckled again because from what I know the wine at TJ is inexpensive, the bagger reassured me that TJ has an expensive Chardne and that if I never tried it, I should since it is really good. He even offered to go grab me a bottle and I just wanted to get out of the store. When I declined he offered that he will get it for me next time I come in and I politely said that’s ok but thank you.

When I was pulling out of my parking spot I noticed someone running towards me, it was the guy that bagged my groceries. He came by the passenger window, I opened it to see what he wanted, maybe I forgot something in the store and he reached in and gave me the bottle of wine in a small brown bag and said, “please try it, its on me.” Is he serious? I was shocked. I must admit that was a pretty good move.

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I went out with my guy friend last night. I have not seen him in months. I sent him a text suggesting a movie that was playing at the Grove (an outside mall). He wanted to go to Daphne’s (Greek fast food) for dinner before, which is near the Grove. I text back letting him know there’s an awesome Greek restaurant at the Grove and we can kill two birds with one stone. He text me back that it works for him and he’ll pick me up in 10 minutes.

When he picked me up, he say’s, “Daphne’s”? I reminded him about the Greek restaurant at the Grove because that’s where we’re going to see the movie. He nodded and agreed.

When we pulled up into the Grove, he say’s, “Why did we come here again”? Ummm is he serious? A little bit memory loss or did he smoke a little something, somethin?

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