A few months ago I went out on a date with this guy Josh that I met on Match. I thought we hit it off since we had a nice time together and he had offered to take me out again sometime a week after. However he decided to come by my job and take me out to lunch. I was excited either way. During lunch he told me that he couldn’t continue to see me because he had met another girl before me and he would like to give her a chance since he had met her first and had already built a connection with her more then me. I didn’t think it was a big deal since I just had met him and I appreciate the honesty. Take care and good luck right? What else could I have done?

Well while I was out at a bar this weekend. The doorman stopped me to tell me that he knows me. I didn’t recognize him but after he told me he’s name and how we met I realized it was the Match guy that didn’t pick me at the time. Well after we had some small talk to catch up he offered to take me out again because it didn’t work out with the girl that was chosen over me. Is he serious?  I am not someone’s second choice thank you. Better luck next time.

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I finally went out with the guy I emailed this past Sunday night. I was very excited to meet him since it took so long for him to write me back. We met at Starbucks early evening. When I got there, he was already there drinking his coffee. I was not very impressed with his looks because he didn’t look like his picture. I was hoping for his personality to shine. He was a gentleman by getting up and giving me a hug hello but then he didn’t offer to get me a drink and I waited inline by myself while he saved our seats.

While he wasn’t sure what I was talking about. sipping my Chai Latte, we asked each other some interview questions like where you’re from and how do you like LA but when it was time to answer what you do, he said he was an “Actor”. Wait a second… I thought he went to Europe last week on a Business Trip?? Ok so maybe he was filming in Europe. When I asked him how his trip was, Why lie?

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 I went on a date last week & it didn’t go so well. I didn’t feel any chemistry and the guy lied about his age. At the end of the date I told him that I didn’t think this was going to work. However, he had a different opinion apparently, because he called me and left me a voice mail the next day thanking me for meeting him for a drink and asking me to give him another chance to go out with him. He said he wasn’t feeling very well and that he is sure we will have a much better time next time. I did not call him back; I already told him that I didn’t feel there was any chemistry. Was I not clear?

Then yesterday morning I received a card from an unknown sender. When I opened the card I found a piece of paper that was scotch taped on the blank side. It was also from the same guy. Why doesn’t he get it? The card wasn’t even HANDWRITTEN, he typed up the message on the computer (or typewrite who knows now) and taped it to the card. The card read,” I felt a real connection with you, like no other. I had an awesome time with you and I’m sorry if I was a jerk but I will put in all the effort to make it up to you.”

Is he serious? What effort???? He didn’t even WRITE the card. Who does that? Believe it or not I took a red pen and wrote http://www.isheserious.com/ put it in the envelope and sent it back to him.

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 A friend of mine sent me this email yesterday. I summarized it.

XXXXXX called me last night. I have been going out with him for a little over 6 months. We spent a lot of time together, have met each others family, and even went back packing in Europe for 3 weeks and had the best time together. I seriously thought that this guy can be the one. But then a few weeks after we get back, he calls me and says, “I have a lot going on these days, I am too busy for a girlfriend that needs so much of my time”.   Is he serious?

First of all she is better off without him because he is NOT even MAN enough to have this conversation in person. Second, you don’t date someone for over 6 months and introduce the girl to the family and travel together and then you end with, “I don’t have time”????? Be man enough, honest and tell the truth. If you love someone you make time. 

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 This guy emailed me on MySpace, asking me if I recall chatting with him awhile ago on match.com, and telling me that he wasn’t sure how we lost touch. I didn’t want to be rude and ignore him, so I wrote him back.

I do remember chatting briefly. People lose touch with online dating all the time. Sometimes there’s no connection. What can you do? Take care.

I think that was pretty clear that I wasn’t interested right? Apparently NOT! Because his response was, Click para continuar lendo »

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