4 months ago I met this guy online and after several email and phone conversations he asked me out for a drink. I took him up on the offer and when that day arrived he canceled on me over an instant messenger & apologized but asked to reschedule for another day. I was pretty tired that day and didn’t mind the cancelation. He let me know that he would call me later on that night to pick a better day for both of us.  He never called that night or any other night for that matter.  I probably should have forgotten about the guy but it bothered me that I had invested so many conversations into him just to get blown off. Just because he never met me does not mean that I don’t have feelings.  So, I sent him an instant message a week later saying nice to meet you. He immediately wrote back apologizing and almost begging me to give him another chance and meet him for a drink. For more please click below

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My girlfriend and I went out this weekend to a bar we have never been to before. She heard from a group of friends that there are always good-looking guys. I am always up for new places especially if there’s a good group of cuties. I believe that a bar is not the place to meet the “one” but if he’s cute and there are drinks he becomes the ONE for right now. Lol.

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Some guy emails me online from his friends profile and expressed his interest in me and asked me to give him a chance to get to know him a little better. I thought that was a sweet email and he was taking a chance on emailing me. I replied back to this profile with my personal email address in order to receive a picture from this mystery man since I don’t know what he looks like.   About a week later I checked my email, well with all the holidays and my vacation I didn’t have much time to check it earlier. There was an email from some random guy that has sent me a pic. The message didn’t say anything but his name. When I downloaded the image, it was a guy in a tux and some girl in almost like a prom dress on his right arm. WHAT??? Seriously, does this guy really think he’s going to pick up a girl like that? Who was that? How does someone send an email that is obviously random and not even introduce himself? AND then did I have to see this girl on his arm???????? 

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This gorgeous guy emailed me online. As usual it was a message that said, “I like your profile, great pics, I’d like to get to know you better, write me back if you’re interested”. But his pictures were so HOT that I didn’t even care to read his profile and I wrote back right away. Why play games with a cutie like that? Lol We exchanged several emails before he asked me out for lunch. I was so excited to meet him that I never really asked any questions. The fact that he looked like a model was enough for me. I suggested a local chain restaurant (Friday’s) near my office since I didn’t have a lot of time that day and he had no problem with driving it over by me.  I woke up a little earlier that day to give myself a little more time to get ready.  I arrived at the restaurant right on time and didn’t see him and took a seat at the bar.  I waited a few minutes and saw there was a single guy sitting close by but he didn’t look familiar so I kept waiting around. Besides this guys was not good looking at all so I knew that couldn’t be him. Another minute went by and I noticed that guy walk towards me, I got so nervous for a second because I didn’t want my date to walk in and see me talking to some other guy. I tried to turn away to let this guy know that I wasn’t interested in being approached.  Next thing I know, this voice behind me calls out my name. I turn around and sure enough it’s the unattractive guy.  I was so shocked I didn’t know what to say. He looked NOTHING like the pictures online, not even close to being a relative of the hottie. For a second I thought those pictures were real model shots and not this guy at all. At that point what can I do run? Umm yea the thought did cross my mind but I couldn’t do that. Either way how bad can this be.  

The conversation during lunch was ok; I learned that those were his real pictures from 5 years ago. I accidentally thought out loud and said, “You don’t look like that anymore”. Seriously lets be honest here, did he actually think the girls he goes out with will still be interested in him???? I think NOT. To top it all off, when the bill came, he took it from the waiter looked at it and said, “I am not at liberty to take care of this check, can we split it?” WHAT? Not at liberty?  Who says that?  

Why lie about the way you look right now? What did he get out of that? The idea of dating is to potentially meet that one and only that we’re all looking for right? Guys complain that the girls post old pictures of when they were thin. Then why do men post pictures of when they were a lot younger?

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I am female- I have been dumped for not giving it up “soon enough” and for giving it up “too soon”. Somehow, the blame for the dissolution of the dating relationship always landed in my lap (no pun intended). It got so bad that I became super neurotic and paranoid, to the point where I was trying to pin point the exact second I could be intimate with a guy in any way and whatever resulted from that (him dumping me?) wouldn’t be ALL my fault. I was actually frightened to have sex!!My best advice for Ladies is just to do what you feel, any MATURE man that is really into you, wouldn’t run away suddenly because you have f—-d! They were butt ass naked too, and NOBODY is judging them! We have to stop accepting that BULLSHIT reason for dumping someone. He stopped calling because he was “not that into you” from the beginning, and he was just showering you with false affection and attention in an attempt to get you to sleep with him-(read he was PLAYING/Tricking you). It wasn’t like he was like “Oh I thought we could have a great relationship but now that we’ve had great sex, I don’t see that happening” - Get the Fxxx outta here! She gave it up too soon” and “she didn’t give it up so i cheated” are just ways of shifting the blame onto the woman, so he doesn’t have to admit to himself and the world what the REAL issue was and how much of a cowardly, childish crack head he is. Don’t completely believe that evolutionary “we need the chase” crap. It is true ONLY to a certain extent, as if you wait “too long” to give it up, these same men will use it as a justification to dump or cheat on you!Ladies, The fact is, this type of “man” just has Relationship A.D.D. because they simply get bored too easily and tend to be SELFISH (incapable of thinking about anyone’s wants/feelings but their own)- this is the type of man who would get bored with Halle Berry if given enough time. The minute this type of man is not kept constantly stimulated like a hyper two-year old, they want to blame someone else so they don’t have to feel bad about running to stick their manhood elsewhere.

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