No, no, not two weeks notice at work but I wish it was that way when it comes to dating. People never give the courtesy call to let the other person know that they are not interested in pursuing anything further. When I first moved to Los Angeles, I met many men at bars on the weekends. It was so weird, I would meet someone on Friday and Saturday and it was always an interview with each guy I would meet. This is how it went:

The guy would approach me, ask my name, where I’m from and what do I do for a living. I would answer and ask the same questions in return. We continued to chat further and have a cocktail or two and exchange phone numbers. The following week he would call, we go out have a good time and he calls again a few days later for a 2^nd date and two weeks go by and I never hear from him again.

This continued for months. I would meet someone new every other weekend if not every weekend. It was like the guys knew that I am new to town. Was it written on my forehead? In any case, I had several two week “relationships” that never went any further then 2 maybe, maybe 3 dinners. Maybe you’re wondering it was because I didn’t give up, oh contraire my friends. That’s what I used to think, but nope. It’s because this city is filled with beautiful women and there are too many to choose from and no one sees what is in front of them because they are too busy thinking that Mrs. Right is still out there. Oh AND 78% of this city is in the ET industry and if you cannot help them succeed what else are you good for?

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I had high hopes when “Dan,” an attractive and smart schoolteacher, and graduate of a highly-rated liberal arts college, invited me on a date. When the bill arrived after dinner, I reached for my purse, fully expecting him to say, “Please, I invited you. Let me pay.” When he didn’t, I set down a twenty. He followed suit and set down a twenty as well. We waited several minutes for the waitress to pick up our check. Finally, concerned we might miss our movie, “Dan” suggested we leave exact change so we wouldn’t have to wait any longer. He took away his twenty and replaced it with a five. He inspected the bill again and realized that on a $22 tab, $25 would not be enough with a tip. He then asked ME if I had a few singles. Caught off guard, I obliged and set down three dollars. “Oh, good. Now we can go,” he declared. “Oh, good,” I thought to myself, “I’ve just paid $23 on a $27 bill for a date I was invited on!” Oblivious, “Dan” didn’t make it up to me by paying for my movie ticket.

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I once dated a guy “off and on” for three years.  He was so cheap that once he waded into the fountain at a mall (an INDOOR mall) to get change for the dollar-movie theater!  He told me “hey, cover me (tell me if mall security sees me)”.  My reply was “HELL NO!” and I walked away. Is he serious?

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Shocking, I know but true. He was on Oprah today telling his story with his wife. He was born a female and was a beauty queen in his earlier age and has always felt like he should be a man. He met his wife when he was still Tracy and she accepted him and now accepts him as a man. So did that make her a lesbian? But she also has 2 children.

I am still unsure how I feel about this. We can look at it in two ways. Finally here is a man that can do it “ALL” or is he still confused about his sexuality??? Because he is excited about being pregnant. I think it’s great that he found happiness with his wife and he was able to give her this amazing gift in having a baby girl when she was unable to get pregnant herself but at the same time then he’s really not a man. I have no problem with women or men changing their sexuality because they feel they were born in the wrong body but then make up your mind. Are you a man or a woman, because men DO NOT GIVE birth. For more please visit the link http://abcnews.go.com/Health/story?id=4581943&page=1

This just shows what this blog is all about, not just the bad dates, or the wrong men we meet, even our society has is he serious situations.

What do you think about this?

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A few months ago I went out on a date with this guy Josh that I met on Match. I thought we hit it off since we had a nice time together and he had offered to take me out again sometime a week after. However he decided to come by my job and take me out to lunch. I was excited either way. During lunch he told me that he couldn’t continue to see me because he had met another girl before me and he would like to give her a chance since he had met her first and had already built a connection with her more then me. I didn’t think it was a big deal since I just had met him and I appreciate the honesty. Take care and good luck right? What else could I have done?

Well while I was out at a bar this weekend. The doorman stopped me to tell me that he knows me. I didn’t recognize him but after he told me he’s name and how we met I realized it was the Match guy that didn’t pick me at the time. Well after we had some small talk to catch up he offered to take me out again because it didn’t work out with the girl that was chosen over me. Is he serious?  I am not someone’s second choice thank you. Better luck next time.

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